Easy peasy – you have to get within ten feet of the man you fancy and stay put - for at least an hour - because  you need to smile broadly at him a minimum of 35 times in those 60 minutes. I’m guessing that if you spot Mr Right paying for petrol or in a supermarket and he wants to move on before the hour is up, well you’ll just have to learn to smile fast. My( not at all expert) advice would be to practice  speed smiling  in the mirror first to be sure your look is alluring and not loony-chic.

Tip number two from Mr Trees also involves getting within ten feet of the object of your desire, and then dancing alone to music.

 I tried this on my husband last night when he was watching Shed TV.  I made my own music by singing  The Birdy Song, a particular favourite of his, and he responded by asking me if I had wormed the dog.